What is the essence of being a Christian?It is certainly more than doctrine, precepts, and commandments. It is first and foremost a relationship a relationship of trust, affection, commitment, loyalty, faithfulness, kindness, thoughtfulness, compassion, mercy, helpfulness, encouragement, support, strength, protection, and so many other qualities that bind people together in mutual love and unity. God offers us the greatest of relationships union of heart, mind, and spirit with himself, the very author and source of love (1 John 4:8,16).